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Put yourself in their shoes and it’s pretty easy to see.

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I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.

I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one.

Dear Christina, Before I give you the pep talk you need, let me first acknowledge the painful truths that you’ve eloquently outlined above. Having four kids under the age of 9 is a huge handicap.

I’d try to spin it in a slightly more positive way, but I can’t.

Ultimately, all I wanted from that single mom was to hook up, because that’s all I felt she could give me.

Whether it’s fair or not is debatable, but that’s how I felt at the time.

I was married for ten years, have four beautiful boys under 9 and have a very fulfilling and successful career.

My life is happy, but I really would love to share it with someone…

Instead of dating cute 34-year-old single guys who don’t have kids, how about you date cute 43-year-old guys who are in the exact same spot in life, who understand your predicament, who have obligations of their own, and who will be delighted to meet a woman who gets THEM.

You shouldn’t quit because single men your age want sex and more time. So I stay away from that for the same reasons that men stay away from women with children..

but dating when you have FOUR kids is like the Mt Everest of the dating world!

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